One thing I have learned is that everyone has a unique upbringing that he or she has experienced to formulate what he or she believes in or stands for. I may sometimes not understand his or her opinion, and may even think what they think or believe is wrong or totally absurd.
I must remind myself that this person has gone through experiences differently than what I have. Ever breath, every step, though it can ve very similar, is different from mine, and from a different perspective. For me to expect that person to see things exactly I have is very unrealistic.
I try my best to try to listen to people in their tone instead of mine. It is very difficult, but necessary to attempt.